i dont want to get the soft deleted items from relations when i find any object. how to do it?

const product = await this.productRepository.findOne({
    where: {
       id: productId,
    },
    relations: [
       'items',
       'billingAddress',
       'shippingAddress',
       'contact',
       'tax',
       'paymentTerm',
       'transactions',
       'salesPerson',
    ],
 });

here i soft deleted a transaction, but when i am trying to find the product, i am getting the soft deleted transaction too, what i can do to avoid?