There is someone I really like. I have a boyfriend, and we’ve been together for 8 years. I’ve been confused about my happiness because he hasn’t fully trusted me. This has caused me to lose feelings for my boyfriend, but I’ve continued the relationship. This year, I met this new person. We started talking as friends, and we became close. We crossed a line, and now I think I’m in love with him. But he’s set to get married soon. He’s the kind of person who would be happy to be with me. I know he cares about me, but the place and priority he gives me isn’t what I want. I was hurt by his actions. After he got what he wanted, he became a little different, but he still tells me he doesn’t want to lose me. However, his actions show me that he doesn’t mind. In the process, I fell for him, and he knows it too. When I got tired of his empty promises, I told him to break up from now on. But now I miss him so much! I’m losing myself. What can I do to make him come back and think about me? Give me advice and tell me what I should do. Please, I need help.”

i don’t know, i need your help